Things guys like girlfriends to do
A bunch of men who date women took to Reddit recently to get very real about what they wish their partners would do more in their relationships. We're not sure why they feel they can't just communicate their needs to their wives, girlfriends, partners etc. But here it is My ex would refuse to make any decisions about what we were going to do. If I was visiting her she wouldn't buy food until I'd arrived and decided what we were going to eat.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: 5 Things Guys Want In A Relationship
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I may have my peculiarities, but I think I speak for most of my sex. We love to touch your bodies, stroke and caress you… for days…. Just naturally-washed and towel-dried. We love to run our fingers through it. It soothes us. Why throw up roadblocks? That includes red lines on penetration, as well. Kissing is an art, and for that, you need a fresh canvas. No taste of smoke or wine… anything really. It ruins the moment. Worse is taste of toothpaste or breath mints. Nothing pleases us more than virtual silence.
Any hair at all in either place is a turn-off for us. It gives you class and we definitely appreciate that. Hey, we were bred on super heroes, as well. And deep in the minds of all us guys is that mythical princess. Temps pis, as the French say. Most of us guys are repulsed by it. Even a touch of it. I know that sounds cruel but it usually boils down to low self esteem.
Overeating is usually the result or just being clueless about good eating habits. I, myself, work out hard at the gym and keep myself trim and fit. I expect the same from my girlfriends. I know there are a few guys who like a little plumpness. Most of us crave slenderness. There are ways to control it. Read up on it. And it usually comes along with yellowed teeth which is a further repulsion. We all have natural odors but if we keep our bodies clean, fresh smells are actually an aphrodisiac, especially after bathing.
But face it, our bodies—males and females—are different. Worse is trying to cover it up with deodorants and perfumes. Lax hygiene is a problem with only a few of you, though. I hate them and I think most guys do.
Whoever invented them should have been guillotined. They have to be the least sexy thing in the world. A little time in the sun or self-bronzing creams should be sufficient.
Oh, and bright red is no longer sexy. All right, I said it. But deal with it. As I said, I keep myself clean. I expect the same from my girlfriends and I know that goes for all guys because I constantly hear about it. Once I was with this girl and I was down there in the dark and loving every minute of it. Her arm happened to swing up and flick the light on and to my horror, I found myself in a virtual bed of hidden mushrooms.
I thought I was gonna die. It was a good five years before I went down there again. Hey, you can bitch and scream and write all sorts of nasty comments in response if you want. I know there are some guys who are exceptions but most of us feel this way. So deal with it, contessa! I am a man, and I know we have our own relationship expectations […]. Sign up for the Thought Catalog Weekly and get the best stories from the week to your inbox every Friday. You may unsubscribe at any time.
By subscribing, you agree to the terms of our Privacy Statement. We love to touch your bodies, stroke and caress you… for days… 2. Warm, clean breath Kissing is an art, and for that, you need a fresh canvas. Quietness Nothing pleases us more than virtual silence. Closeness of body, when sitting or sleeping together The feel of you next to us is the most reassuring experience imaginable. Speech etiquette It gives you class and we definitely appreciate that.
Things we hate: 1. Loud, pushy females who feel they have to compete Not only with females, but with us, too. Just be there. Bad complexion …which means either poor diet or overactive hormones, and there are treatments for that.
Fat Most of us guys are repulsed by it. Other hygiene problems We all have natural odors but if we keep our bodies clean, fresh smells are actually an aphrodisiac, especially after bathing. Hoses I hate them and I think most guys do. The smell of fish All right, I said it. More From Thought Catalog. Get our newsletter every Friday! You're in! Follow Thought Catalog.
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By Martha Cliff for MailOnline. It isn't often that men open up about their emotions, with many women struggling to work out what's going on in their man's head. But now a selection of husbands and boyfriends have given a rare insight into what makes them happy in their relationships.
We found 50 guys to spill what men want most—even the stuff most don't have the guts to say out loud. Warning: We must have found the most honest guys in the universe. We asked—and, wow, did they open up the vault: the good, the bad and the OMG, did he just get in a time machine to ? I don't always want to be the one in control; let me guess and joke around a little, too.
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This is exactly what guys are looking for in a girlfriend. What makes the perfect girlfriend? Is she the girl next door with gorgeous good looks and double-Ds? Well, not exactly. Contrary to what you might think, when guys are looking for a girlfriend, most guys aren't looking for a supermodel. They're just looking for someone who knows how to be a good girlfriend: a woman who's down-to-earth, sweet, and sensitive to his needs. Here are 10 attractive traits that every man keeps in mind when deciding if the woman ie. If you're guilty of meekly asking lines like: "Does this skirt make my thighs look fat?
What men wish women would do more often in relationships
Every guy loves validation that his sexual prowess is worthy of you. Most guys what to come to the conclusion that they want to marry their current girlfriend in their own time, however long that may take. If he can win over your father, the rest of your family should be a piece of cake. Or even if he just looks extra hot one day. Let him know!
Do you remember the exact moment that you fell in love with your boyfriend? Maybe it was on your first date hey, love at first sight totally exists, just ask the hopeless romantics out there. Maybe it was after a month, and after he had proven that he was for real, and different from all of the other guys that you had dated before.
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We know every guy is different, and of course, what he wants from his girlfriend is going to be, well, different. But have you ever wondered what boyfriends really want from their girlfriends? His needs are probably different from what you would expect. But what they really want from you is more driven by non-tangible things. Now, we asked different guys the same question, and here are their answers:. With that love, we can make every moment memorable and make our relationship even tighter and stronger.
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