I want a man that will take care of me
Getting a man to take care of you in an age where independent women are the norm takes a specific skill set. But don't worry, you can easily learn them. We'll go over each of the skills individually. So what's the lure in having a man take care of you? I'll give you my list I would rather have flowers in my hair than wear a business suit.SEE VIDEO BY TOPIC: WW Presents Oprah's Your Life in Focus: A Vision Forward // Week One: Focus
How to Get a Man to Take Care of You
Have you ever worked longer than expected because you took pride in your work and wanted to please your boss or client? Have you ever given an expensive gift to your less fortunate sister or your self-sacrificing mother? You put yourself out for a friend, for a pet, for a loved one, but when do you get the opportunity to receive?
But you hesitate to do the easiest, smartest thing for your long-term happiness:. Apply to join me in Love U. It comes from deep, meaningful, human connection — and nothing is deeper, more meaningful and more fulfilling than a happy marriage. I hope you challenged yourself on what you can do differently, and on understanding how men really think. No matter what, I remain committed to staying in touch with you and giving you as much valuable information as I can in my weekly newsletters, blog posts and podcasts.
Click here before pm tonight to apply to apply to Love U and join other smart successful women who are also ready to live happily ever after. If Evan helped me figure this out? He can do it for anyone. Easily the best and most healthy relationship of my life. Really happy. Evan helped me to attract and keep an amazing man who makes me feel special and cherished and oh, by the way?
Now I feel as lucky and blessed in my relationship as I do in all the other areas of my life. I used to wonder how I managed to figure out everything in life but love. I thought the really amazing relationships were for someone else.
The adjustments I made were so minor, yet they had such an amazing impact on my life. Thank you, Evan, for everything. See you inside Love U! He uses his mind, always wants to learn, eats healthy, exercises. Deals with hard times by self reflection and making change if needed.
Emotionally and financially responsible. Has insight into his own issues and is aware of the world situation and works to make this a better world. These are the things I do for myself and I expect other adults, particularly by my age, to do the same.
No one can make you whole or functional except yourself. If your life seems currently overwhelming, you and you alone must figure out the solution and enter into change. As a guy, that sounds exhausting. That feels disingenuous. What Noquay asks for is much more realistic — at least it certainly describes me.
She had Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Being married to that is soul crushing. I know how to screen for it now, and I run, far and fast. You call it exhausting. I call it marriage. Two people who are givers, constantly giving. You know the best way to screen? Trust me, if you make it clear to women what you will and will not offer you will find the right buyer for exactly what you are selling.
Hm, perhaps this is a consequence of the US being a highly individualistic culture, but some of you seem a bit divorced from reality. It remains consistent in all human interactions. Personally, I like what Evan is pitching here. To me, those are not the same thing. I am a coach for women. I tell them to not settle for less. There was no balance in that pitch, and I know people who will take it literally, as written.
My ex would certainly love to be his client! Maybe I should refer her. Bob- I had the same reaction as you when I saw the title. This one article was just a facet of it. My husband is an alpha male. Talk about narcissism…. Bob : which of these would you not do for your wife: drive her to the airport, some household chores, organise a trip, give her love, give support?
Which bit bothers you? Why I am headed back north. Yep, sometimes one does need others yet one should or often has to be in a place to meet ones own needs. When I was married back north, my husband and I had a good, albeit strange division of labor.
He did the bills, the shopping, heavy lifting, tended the cars. Things have changed since then. At the time I also worked full time while they were retired. Such folk were discouraged from sticking around. Some meant well but did not have the health or stamina to do much of anything. Very common. Finding a healthy partner online is a near impossibility.
I learned to do repairs and built stairs, cabinets, outbuildings, on my own because that was the only way the work got done and was quality.
Obese people of the kind found in the U. This has its drawbacks, but on the whole I find it an advantage. Most men here would rather die than see a woman pick up a hammer or drill in their presence if they themselves could do it. Theirs is a universe of limited resources and a view that most everything in life is a zero-sum game. Your email address will not be published. Don't subscribe All Replies to my comments Notify me of followup comments via e-mail. You can also subscribe without commenting.
I know something about you. You began reading my blog because you were frustrated with dating. Who could blame you? Online dating is a jungle. Hook-up culture can be soul-sucking.
Once you understand where men are coming from, which I would not have been able to do without the help of "Why He Disappeared," it is very simple!
I have never felt so relaxed around him, he knows this and wants to spend more time with me. His choice! He was gentle, tough, hugely insightful and extremely accurate at decoding a man's words, his actions, his lack of action, his likely intentions. It was like having a direct line to a man's "private talk. Evan's info gave me the understanding that if a guy is interested in you, he will want to be with you, he will call when he says he will call, he will make sure he arranges time to spend with you.
Share Life is hard enough. It sucks. And nobody talks openly about it. Have you ever spent long nights on the phone counseling a dear friend? Have you ever spent thousands of dollars on veterinarian bills for a sick pet? Have you ever given more to a relationship than the relationship has given back to you? What we see here is not just that you are generous but you are actually generous to a fault. So, why am I bringing this up now, on the last day of this special Love U launch?
If anything, I wanted you to see something I see in you: You are so committed to giving to others that you may neglect your own needs. Not very often. This is your chance. You need to be as generous with yourself as you are with others. But you hesitate to do the easiest, smartest thing for your long-term happiness: Apply to join me in Love U.
This is one area in which no one else can save you. I assure you: there is no better feeling in the world. Give me 5 minutes a day and I will give you a husband.
Why Strong, Independent Women Just Want to Be Taken Care of (Sometimes)
Have you ever worked longer than expected because you took pride in your work and wanted to please your boss or client? Have you ever given an expensive gift to your less fortunate sister or your self-sacrificing mother? You put yourself out for a friend, for a pet, for a loved one, but when do you get the opportunity to receive? But you hesitate to do the easiest, smartest thing for your long-term happiness:. Apply to join me in Love U.
Wouldn’t You Like A Man To Take Care Of YOU?